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Coming Out as Gay: Navigating the Shame of Sexuality

May 20, 2022 • Emily Stearman/Cameron Stearman • Season 1 • Episode 26

The fight to feel valid, supported, and seen is one the queer community knows well.

I sat down with Cameron Stearman for a vulnerable, authentic conversation about his experience with that fight.

Cameron shares his story of growing up gay, his fight for validity, love, and acceptance, and the shame that lived with him in that place.

⚠️TW: discussion of suicidal thoughts/ideation, self-harm, and coming out to parents/family. If any of these themes are difficult for you to sit through, please go mindfully into this episode.⚠️

This episode is a beautiful glimpse into queer adolescence; the butterflies-in-your-stomach, "will they like me back?" period so many of us know, but with the added heartbreak of navigating homophobia.

If you're interested in connecting with Cameron, find him on Instagram or Twitter.

Find me here or here, or email me em@helloemilystearman.com

P.S. YOU ARE VALID AND YOUR WORTH IS UNTOUCHABLE. 🧡✨🙌🎉

Added August of 2022: WOW. Speaking to Shame has GROWN! I am floored and humbled and weepy. What a journey this has been! As the podcast grows, so too do my abilities to share incredible stories and people with you. As my time investments increase, so does my need for support. If Speaking to Shame has ever helped you feel seen, I’d be honored if you donated ANY amount to the show. Here’s to continued healing. 🧡
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